TIMELY

I had a difficult meeting Tuesday after work - not difficult as in who I was meeting with or meeting dynamics, but as in the purpose of the meeting. Thankfully, the person I met with is consistently calm, kind, and patient. Still, I almost always leave these meetings in tears.

Tuesday was one of those crying meetings.

Tears on the drive home.

Tears as I lay in my bed not sleeping throughout Tuesday night.

Sometimes I think I am finally past tears, but then another "Tuesday" comes along.

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Wednesday morning, weary and weary-hearted, I sat down at my desk to read my Bible. I have a read-through-the-Bible-in-a-year plan that I loosely follow. Basically, I ignore the dates and read at my own pace.

Wednesday morning, I did not read the passage assigned for August 26. Instead, I read the passage for September 1-2. (Obviously, I am either slightly ahead in my reading...or very far behind. I'll let you guess which.)

Anywho, in God's kind providence, I opened my Bible and read this:

"In the year that King Uzziah died I saw the Lord sitting upon a throne, high and lifted up; and the train of his robe filled the temple..." (Isaiah 6:1)

Stop. Right. There.

"In the year that King Uzziah died..." Isaiah received this vision of God at a turning point in Israel's history. The world as Isaiah knew it was coming to an end. After a lengthy period of prosperity and blessing, God was sending Syria to attack his covenant people. In the face of this terrifying revelation, God showed Isaiah that He, the Lord, was still on his throne.

The book of Isaiah was not written to me, but it was written for me, preserved and passed down to me. God orchestrated the details of my own life so that Wednesday morning, as I grieved my own "death of King Uzziah," I read Isaiah's words of assurance.

My world feels like it is falling apart. Right now, I cannot even imagine a future. But I am reminded and confident of this: GOD IS ON HIS THRONE.

But there is more...

In the next chapter, Isaiah is sent to King Ahaz to deliver the bad news about Syria. His exhortation to Ahaz is this: "Be careful, be quiet, do not fear, and do not let your heart be faint...If you are not firm in your faith, you will not be firm at all." (Isaiah 7:4a, 9b)

It felt like God was holding my face tenderly in his hands, saying to me:  "Camille, look at me. Look at me! I am on the throne. I am right here where I have always been. Do not be afraid. Hold steady in your faith."

That, Dear Reader, was balm to my troubled heart.

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"You have kept count of my tossings; put my tears in your bottle. Are they not in your book?" - David, Psalm 56:8

"Weeping may tarry for the night, but joy comes with the morning." -David, Psalm 30:5b

LEARNING TO LAMENT

My oldest son once told me, years ago, in the wake of some now-forgotten trial, something to the effect of: "Mom, you run too quickly to joy...slow down, and give space for grief. Let joy come in its proper time."

He was right, of course.

This tendency to fast-sprint to joy was no doubt fueled by many factors.

My personality. Although I have been accused of being gray and melancholy, I prefer light and brightness. I have big naked windows - no curtains or blinds - so that as much sunlight (and moonlight) as possible can come inside. My favorite movies are ridiculously silly. I am wiggly. I would much rather live - and for many years have lived - in a world of imagined goodness painted by self-deception, willful ignorance, and Herculean denial, than confront hard truths or painful realities. I do not want to look in the face of evil, so I cover that face with a mask.

My culture. My faith tradition frequently and enthusiastically sang songs like "Count Your Many Blessings" and "I've Got the Joy, Joy, Joy, Joy," but it wasn't until I was well into adulthood that I encountered songs like "From the Depths of Woe." Christians are supposed to be happy, right? Dwell on the positive; hope for the best; quote Romans 8:28; be content.

Fear. Fear of dishonoring God. Fear of seeming ungrateful. Fear that exposing darkness and lies might unleash unimaginable evils. Fear that Almighty God just might not be big enough to handle the deep, heart-rending brokenness underneath the surface of so much that appears beautiful in this world.

Laziness. It is so much easier to carry a bucket filled with light than a bucket filled with muck.

EXPOSED!

THIS has been a year of incredible pain, loss, heartbreak...and tremendous growth.

I have become fluent in weeping and lament.

I was introduced to a lovely book in one of my classes this summer: Every Moment Holy, a collection of liturgies for everyday life. (HIGHLY recommend.)

I want to share with you an excerpt from "A Liturgy for the Death of a Dream":

"O Christ, in whom the final fulfillment

of all hope is held secure,

I bring to you now the weathered

fragments of my former dreams,

the broken pieces of my expectations,

the rent patches of hopes worn thin,

the shards of some shattered image of

life as I once thought it would be.

"...take this dream, this husk,

this chaff of my desire, and give it back

reformed and remade according to

your better vision,

or do not give it back at all.

Here in the ruins of my wrecked

expectation, let me make this best confession:

"Not my dreams, O Lord,

not my dreams,

but yours be done.

Amen."

(Douglas Kaine McKelvey, “The Death of a Dream,” in Every Moment Holy, vol. 1 (Nashville, TN: Rabbit Room Press, 2017), 232-235.)

"Your grace is my shelter. Your love is my home. Even in the valley, I am never alone." - Lauren Diagle

LIKE WAKING UP FROM THE LONGEST DREAM...

 "Where do you see yourself one year from now?"

I had no answer for this question, asked by one of my awesome kids. "I have no idea. When I try to think about the future, I can't see anything but thick gray fog. I can't see anything at all...can't imagine...can't even dream."

"I can," my child replied. "I see very good things. From where I stand, your future looks brighter right now than it has looked in a long, long time." This kind soul paused, then continued. "You cannot dream yet, Mom, so I will dream for you."

This conversation occurred several months ago. Today, when I try to imagine my life one year from now, I still see nothing but fog. But the fog is beginning to lift, get thinner. I believe that maybe...just maybe...I see a small glimmer of light breaking through.

I cannot make out any definite outlines or contours, yet, just a soft flicker of hope.

It feels like waking up...

Keith Green - Like Waking Up